Well, as I sit here and look at the people on my prefered Adult Dating Site, I begin to wonder about what brings them pleasure. Also I wonder what new tricks and techniques have they learned to bring others pleasure....HAVE they learned new ways to move their hands, new strokes of their fingertips and new uses for their tongues? It would be such a waste if they haven't....if they were not open to learning and exploring.
Have I learned new techniques to bring pleasure to my lovers? Yes, of course! That is part of the joy I get from meeting new people. I am always open to discussing pleasure with a new lover and in fact, if they are not open to a discussion about sex and likes/wants/dislikes then our conversation and meeting comes to a polite end.
So...what I have learned, you may ask....I will attempt to list them...I do SO like my lists!
1) Kissing is just as important to men as it is to women. I also have learned that I like more aggressive kissing where I feel his or her lips on mine....but not too much tongue....please.
2) Stroking balls and gently playing with a man's ass during a well-planned blow job can be fun for both of us. The fact that I lavishly suck, tease, stroke, lick, envelope a man's cock while I give it its due attention is only amplified by the attention that is paid to their balls and asshole (if they choose).
3) I really do like it when the attention is returned...and I am not talking about cunnilingus but rather stimulation of my mind DURING sex..I like playful yet intense sex...and wow, once you discover my nipples, WATCH OUT!
4) Women's nipples are so different from female to female...some feel very little and others are extra sensitive. I had assumed early on in my bisexual journey that other girls had sensitive nipple like me but after years of practice, they are not! Who knew???
5) The best position for anal sex (for me) is on my back with a pillow under my bum...not doggy style...in fact I am not a fan of vaginal sex that way either....but there is something about feeling the fullness of anal sex while I feel his cock pressing through to my gspot....magical.
I think that is enough for now...but I continue to learn....thanks to patient playmates.
